Trying to learn something for the first time:

When we are doing something new for the first time we feel insecure as we don’t know how it works, we experience the dilemma in taking decisions. We know that we are not the only one doing it for the first time, as we see the same being done by others. It happens until we get the confidence. Experience counts, as and how we get experienced, we start to learn how it works and we tend to get the confidence.
Let’s look at a simple example, when we are trying to learn how to swim. The situation is somewhat like, we cannot learn how to swim until and unless we get into the water pool and we don’t want to enter into the water pool as we are afraid and still trying to learn how to swim. We certainly take the necessary precautions so that we don’t get hurt, at the same time we need to have the strength, courage and wisdom to take a bold first step to enter into it. It differs from one person to another, how quick we learn. It also depends on many other factors like, how good is the coach who is teaching, how deep is the water pool, etc, etc.
We can see many similar examples like, when we are learning how to ride a bicycle, when we are learning how to drive a four wheeler, when we are learning how to be independent and stay away from our loved ones, and many more. We can almost see this happening all the time in our lives.

Logic of Good and Bad:

Logic of Good and Bad:
There are two of them by name “GOOD” and “BAD”. “GOOD” is so good that it does not want to hurt “BAD” but definitely would want to heal and forgive them. On the other hand “BAD” is so bad that it tries to destroy “GOOD” even after being spared by the other. This is the simple difference between good and bad which history proves and keeps repeating. The logic here is simple, “GOOD” came into existence only because of “BAD”. If there had been no bad then how would the difference exist between the two? It’s merely the balance created by nature to counteract. None of them alone can be completely destroyed and are thus created when ever there is a requirement to balance. As toughness is created when there is pain, similarly “GOOD” becomes stronger when pain exceeds its limits and “BAD” becomes stronger when happiness exceeds its limits. It’s simple as to stop the pain and hatred, and start the healing with compassion for happiness. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction and thus everything happens for goodness.
“BAD” survives by suppressing and utilizing the “GOOD”. “BAD” stops getting its resources and automatically perishes if “GOOD” avoids the bad and is kept away from “BAD”.
This is a popular saying: See no evil, Hear no evil, Speak no evil and Do no evil. It also means that see, hear, speak and do good. Basics and Necessities in life are to be good as expecting more than required will spoil them and leads to self destruction.

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Time is the only solution:

Time is the only solution.
Sometimes we face situations where in we are helpless. It means to say that they did not happen as expected. All we can do is put in our best efforts for a good purpose. We realize that, we have already put our best efforts but could not get the expected results. We realize that, we can put more efforts if required but don’t know what to do. When we don’t see what efforts are to be made, we seek and pray. We think we are strong but still do cry which makes us much stronger. We are hurt because of the pain as to things did not happen as expected. When we have no expectations then certainly we don’t experience the pain. The question is: Should we expect good things to happen or not? Definitely we should expect, but when they don’t happen as expected, should we feel the pain and become much stronger or should we just forget them and the pain they caused. Let’s analyze if at all the same things were done by our great leaders who fought for a good purpose and gave us the freedom to live with, would it be possible for them to achieve without pain and strength, why didn’t they just forget because of the pain.
Should we expect others to do everything or is it necessary that we contribute?
Can we achieve progress and live our lives without a good desire?
Is it true that good desire and purpose itself is the strength?
Is it true to say “united we stand” and “unity in diversity”?
Can we grow stronger without taking the pain?
Is it true that good fight is essential and a necessity and fighting for a bad purpose is an utter waste?
How do we fight when we don’t realize what’s good and what’s bad?
How do we fight when we don’t get the strength, support and love of good ones?
Is it true that to realize the difference we should have clear concepts to follow, based on the experiences of life?
Is it true that there are differences between human beings and wild animals?
Is it true that strength is present in all creatures nature has created?
Is it true that the one that is bad and wrong gets destroyed?
Is it the nature’s law of balance to protect the good?
Is it true that victory is possible by the strength achieved from the analysis of truth?
Should we forget that we are human beings and we have something called as intelligence to think?
Should we forget that we should use intelligence for goodness, well being and peace?
Should we forget that things are spoilt when we forcibly rule?
Should we forget that we loose the power when we miss utilize them?

Duties, responsibilities verses luxuries and pleasures:

Duties, responsibilities verses luxuries and pleasures.
Here is something which I could read in a story. The king got married to the ex wife of other past king. The king has ex wives and the queen too has ex husbands. The children of the ex wife are poor and are in pain. They are looking upon their king as their protector as their parent and survivor. They seek the king for protection, care and love. The king is respected only because he is rich, strong and powerful supreme protector. It’s the duty and responsibility of the king, to protect, heal and bless the children. It’s not proper to hurt them when they are already in pain, as they are week and poor. The pain leads them to quarrels and deceases without basic mental peace and health care. The basic necessities which are bare essentials are to be provided at best quality and at a lower price, as they are not the luxuries but requirements for survival. When it’s given with love and gratitude, the same can be expected in return as they are part of the family. There is no meaning for luxuries and pleasures when the subjects are in pain and are miserable. It’s not proper to sacrifice duty and responsibility just for luxuries and pleasures.

For every Action there is an Equal and Opposite Reaction:

For every Action there is an Equal and Opposite Reaction:
Habits and Addictions can be defined as a recurrent and often an unconscious pattern of behavior, which is acquired through frequent repetition. These habits can be good as well as bad ones. They can do good as well as bad depending upon the situations. Getting habituated is due to addiction, it’s the mental situation, psychological behavior and the attitude.
The question is: Is it possible to restore, switch and come back to normal if addicted to good habits. Too much of good as well as bad are addictions, as said: “too much is too bad”. One should get into them if and only if they know how to come out of them. Experience, intelligence and attitude counts. Precautions are to be taken so that one does not get stuck in them. Prevention is better than cure. Limitations and safe boundaries are necessary requirements.
Each one has different levels of strengths and capacities depending on the experiences. Over confidence is no good, thus possible risks are to be considered. Capability to switch over when required is necessary. It’s the requirement, which keeps changing, as life itself is not constant. Proper balance in life is to be maintained for stability, within the safe limits.
Confusions occur when there are miss understandings. Proper understanding can be achieved with confessions and prayers to those who can help.
Gambling is a game of risks and lottery is a game of gambling. Its risky, to exceed the limitations. Speed thrills, but sometimes kills. Sometimes it can even save lives and achieve good. Thus it’s the necessity and the requirement, depending upon the situations where in considerable chances or options within safety limits are taken.

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